Two of my recent posts may have led some of you to believe I am in a mental and/or spiritual funk. This is definitely not the case! I am happy with who, what, and where I am in my life, and those posts are merely depictions of the occasional dips in my enthusiasm.
We all have our ups and downs, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of, or to spend any time worrying about. I propose when we are in a low time, we keep looking to God, knowing He will bring us out of the valley and send us soaring to the top once again. But here’s my point: Are our valleys always as bad as we perceive them to be? In my case, I have to answer with a resounding NO!
Yes, we sometimes find ourselves fighting a serious situation, and in those times it’s often impossible not to be sad or depressed. But! Too many times, we are in a woe-is-me state of mind when it is not only unnecessary, but… well… speaking from my own perspective, ridiculous!
While walking my old dog a few mornings ago, I was in one of those heavy-hearted-for-no-good-reason moods; one of those where you can’t even put your finger on why you’re feeling down or depressed. I suddenly spoke out loud, “Are you kidding me?” A few steps further and I said it again, but with more enthusiasm. I realized how absolutely crazy it was for me to be sad, upset, or otherwise distressed about anything!
I mean for goodness sakes! I don’t have everything, but compared to the vast majority of people in the world, I have it made. I am loved, I have a comfortable home, plenty to eat, and more stuff than I know what to do with. I literally have nothing to complain about!
But, I do complain, and I do get down in the dumps. I’m only human, after all.
Later that morning, I was talking to Mom, trying to cheer her up. She’s had some reason to be down lately, but even so, she, too, has a pretty good life compared to most. But, much to my amazement, Mom gets depressed and sad at times, just like the rest of us. (I tend to think my mom is above all that, so it comes as a shock to me when she exhibits human traits.)
But as I told Mom, about my own case of the doldrums that morning, I suddenly said, “Mom, we need a Wow button!” I told her this imaginary button should be always available, and anytime we begin to feel down, we should press it; the purpose being to recognize our world is a “Wow” world, and we should be viewing it that way. Instead of looking at our problems and being depressed about whatever is wrong, we should be looking at all the good things in our life and shouting, “Wow!”
Come on! Give me a big “Wow!”
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If you’d like to read the posts I refer to at the beginning of this, click on the links below:
Mike Metheny said
Charlie, I can tell you from experience that God is not only with you on the mountain he is with you in the valley. Prayin for you bro.
charlesmashburn said
Thanks, Mike! I appreciate your prayers, because I happen to know you pray some mighty powerful ones!
Sherry Mashburn said
WOW, WOW, WOW!!!!
charlesmashburn said
OK K K!
Raivenne said
“WOW!”
What’s the line “no use in complaining because no one wants to hear it anyway?” or something along those lines. Those who have reached out to you in concern, however needed or not, is proof-positive not only are you heard, but are listened to. That is worthy of a “WOW”
charlesmashburn said
Thank you, Raivenne! Your comments always bless me a bunch!
Cheri said
WOW:)) let’s all put on our WOW button!!!
Thank you my friend:)
charlesmashburn said
Maybe it will catch on, and I’ll be the guy who invented the WOW button!
Love you!
katheworsleyKathe W. said
wowee……. your post resonated with me as really I have no complaints-but we’re all entitled to be down in the dumps a bit as long as we don’t allow “it” to rule our life. Cheers !
And thanks for the nice comments left on my blog! Those always lift my spirits!
charlesmashburn said
I agree! I see no harm in experiencing emotion of any kind, but at some point, we should move on and get o with life in the wow. (I could have so much fun with that word!)
Thanks for the wonderful comments, Kathe. And, you are most welcome regarding my visit and comments!
ladywhispers said
This was one WOW WOW WOW post truly.
Off late I have had not so good time and reading this made me see a lot of positivism….loved this for that
Keep this spirit always 🙂
charlesmashburn said
I’m so glad you enjoyed it! That was my intent–to encourage others–and I seemed to have done it with many! That encourages ME, and makes me very happy!
Thank you for the awesome comments!
jmdh said
I know 7erl folks that need to read this one. wow !!
charlesmashburn said
I think everybody needs to learn to say, Wow!, Dale. We all have so much to be thankful for, don’t ya think?
Speakin of thinkin, I’m thinkin a lot here lately that I might need to come spend a long weekend at your little retreat next year and do some kick-back-fishin.
Tino said
Whilst I am not a religious man, the idea of a WOW button is certainly something I can empathise with.
I know what you mean about some people wondering just how crazy you really are. In my case, and yours I suspect, its only slightly 😉
charlesmashburn said
Thanks, Tino! I was actually just thinking that though the “wow” concept is based on religion, it would appeal to the non-religious as well. A positive outlook is a positive outlook, no matter its foundation!
terri0729 said
LOL, can I have a Zow-Zip-Zing button too?! Loved it Charlie. Think I make one in paper and paste it above my computer 🙂 Blessings…
charlesmashburn said
You betcha! Whatever it takes, girl!
Thanks for the comments!
pure2core said
Very true..Everyone needs a wow and pat in order to make our life valuable.. Am happy there’s a very wonderful person acquainted to me…
A great big WOW! to you from bottom of my heart ..
charlesmashburn said
Thank you for the great big WOW! I appreciate it very much!
neha said
Thank you for sharing such a positive message Mr. Charles . Yes little things and wantings in life makes us feel like we don’t have anything and such thoughts makes us feel like we are the ones less fortunate. But if we think on a broader level, we are so much fortunate than so many people who are suffering to even get a nice meal a day.
The next time I’m down, I’ll surely try this “wow” button 🙂
charlesmashburn said
You are very welcome! I promise you the “wow” button will work! If it doesn’t seem to, just keep hitting it until it does. Thank you for the wonderful comments!
kirti said
wow(this was the reaction to your post) and WOW(this was the thing you requested for) 🙂 thanks for the amazingly motivating post and thanks for visiting my blog 🙂
charlesmashburn said
I’m so glad you enjoyed this one! Thank you for the great comments!
C Rose said
WOW! hehe…just lovely, thank you for sharing! ~ Rose
charlesmashburn said
Glad you enjoyed it, Rose! Thanks for the comment!
sillyfrogsusan said
Thank-you for that WOW Charles…I really needed it today! ❤
charlesmashburn said
So happy I could help, Susan. The button is available all day, so keep smacking it as needed!
Thanks for the visit and comment!
bajanpoet said
WOW *grin* Thanks a lot … needed to read that today 🙂
charlesmashburn said
So many of us need this every day! All day!
Glad it could encourage you!
Thanks for the visit and comment!
Morning said
great one,
shared with the collection, hope all is well.
charlesmashburn said
All is wonderful. Thank you very much for your support, Morning!
Erick Flores said
Well said! Very motivating. Keep going!
Erick Flores
charlesmashburn said
Thanks so much, Erick!
Susie Clevenger said
I like your WOW button…we complain our way through our blessings…I think each morning I shall rise and find the WOW button immediately 🙂
charlesmashburn said
I love the idea of a WOW button. I am really enjoying having it around, and hope it doesn’t get set aside after the new wears off!
Thanks for the great comment, Susie!
elainedanforth said
Interesting your mom is in the story., Charles. Scanning the comments, I did not find anyone mentioning that WOW is MOM upside-down, another tiny perspective shift into which countless meanings could be read. 🙂
And the tiny perspective shifts are maybe the greatest gifts we could receive from God and give ourselves. They are process of opening, and the opportunity that precedes, lives within, and results from that opening process.
It is these that more or less have the power to move mountains, or to figure out a better way than trying to move the mountains.
charlesmashburn said
I hadn’t noticed that either. Very nice touch, Elaine! Thak you for your comments and added perspective on this post. Very much appreciated!
Deborah said
WOW! First time here.
Enjoyed your post!
charlesmashburn said
Wonderful! Thanks fr the visit and comment! Stop by again!
joycedevivre said
I’d give it for a two thumbs up and WOW! 🙂 Featuring this tomorrow, check it out 😀
charlesmashburn said
Wow, back at ya! Thanks for the feature! You get an early made-my-day button!
Thank you, Joyce!
I’m Pressing The ”WOW” Button! « Joyce de Vivre said
[…] encouragement is always a refreshing stop for me and for his readers throughout WordPress. I say, ”WOW” to his post last December 14, 2011: We all have our ups and downs, and it’s nothing to be ashamed […]
charlesmashburn said
Thank you very much, Joyce. Such aa wonderful thing you’ve done!
Bernadette said
Thank you for this wonderfull post, i too will press the WOW button
charlesmashburn said
Thank you, Bernadette! I appreciate your visit and comment!
RVingGirl said
Praise God. That is why the Bible tells us to offer the “sacrifice” of praise because God knows that sometimes it is SO hard to praise Him but He always ALWAYS turns the sacrifice into JOY!
charlesmashburn said
Amen! Thanks for stopping by! Your visit and comment are very much appreciated!
Drusilla Mott said
WOW, is right! What a wonderful, encouraging message. Thank you. I really needed to read this today.
charlesmashburn said
Awesome! I love it when a plan comes together! (My plan is, quite simply, to encourage folks.) I hope you continue to enjoy my blog!
walter bright said
all I can say is WOW!
charlesmashburn said
That’s what I’m talkin bout, Walter!
Thanks for the visit and comment!
The Gooseberry Garden said
Greetings:
Hope that you have had a great Merry Christmas.
Thanks for the delightful support along the way,
Happy New Year.
Share a piece of your poetry today at our week 19 poetry picnic,
Have fun!
Sending you love and blessings.
Cheers.
xoxox
charlesmashburn said
Thank you very much! Hope your Christmas was wonderful, too!